Last Day of Summer Fun

Inspired by Mama Kat’s Writer’s Workshop.

Prompt 5. If you had more time, what is one last summer excursion you would plan for your family?

My soon to be ten year old son, Tyler, has had crushes on girls before but this is the first time he has one on a girl in our neighborhood, so they do get to spend a lot of time together.

I know he has a crush because I asked him, “Is Daphne a girlfriend or a friend who is a girl?” to which he responded to me “Shut up!”

On Labor Day I planned to take Tyler to a really pretty beach on Lake Erie, the last summer hurrah. Even if I was sick I was going to force myself to go because he loves the water.

When he got up this Monday I said, “Today’s the day we’re going to Fairport Harbor!” He got this weird look on his face, the look that means he doesn’t want to disappoint me. “Um…I think I’d rather play with Daphne.”

My child is growing older. I am no longer the number one woman in his life but that’s okay. It’s all a part of growing up. His growing up, and me knowing when to let go, but not too much!

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About mamasick

Emily Cullen is a pen-name. I suffer from chronic illnesses and diseases which include Bipolar Disorder, Asthma, Diabetes and Fibromyalgia. I had battled Lupus and Rheumatoid Arthritis but there is no longer evidence of me having these diseases and my Rheumatologist has declared them to be "burnt out" of my system. I am separated from my husband, “Grant”. Our son, “Tyler” was born in September of 2006 and suffers from tics and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, and is delayed in fine and gross motor skills. In my blog I seek to let sick moms know that they are not the only ones going through this, and to educate people about what can happens when one becomes catastrophically ill. I also strive to break down stereotypes of what a “Welfare Mom” is like. Anything that I have gone through due to being sick, is written on the pages of Mama Sick.

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7 Responses to Last Day of Summer Fun

John Holton says:

September 8, 2016 at 5:34 pm

Well, she IS cute… So, did you hogtie him and drag him off to Fairport Harbor, or did you stay home?
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- mamasick says:
  
  September 8, 2016 at 6:11 pm
  
  Nope, the girl won out, John!
  
Jennifer Worrell says:

September 8, 2016 at 11:19 pm

AWWW. You may not always be the number one woman in his life, but you’ll always be the first:)
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May says:

September 9, 2016 at 8:21 pm

Oh, dagger to the heart! We know it is coming, but we are never quite prepared.
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- mamasick says:
  
  September 18, 2016 at 10:34 am
  
  Yes, it is sometimes hard to let them grow up, May. Thanks for stopping by!
  
Hannah Spannah says:

September 10, 2016 at 4:45 pm

Oh bless them, that’s really sweet, whether they are best friends or whether their are feeling involved but oh my, for your day out to be turned down…..! I’m not prepared for this to happen in a couple of years! Thanks for joining the #weekendblogshare
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Kat says:

September 12, 2016 at 12:21 am

So cute. It’s so important that they have friends they look forward to hanging out with!
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