Boyfriend Material

It has been hard knowing when the right time was to tell this to my readers, but I hope you will share in my happiness. Grant and I have been separated since December and I have been seeing someone.

I actually met “Jacques” (he picked his own pseudonym) on the day I left Grant. He was my neighbor at the hotel. He asked if he could help me unpack my car and of course I told him I could handle it. I didn’t want some strange guy in my hotel room and I thought he was coming on to me! Creep, I thought.

As I got to know him, I realized he was just being a gentleman and neighborly, pretty rare qualities these days.

When I separated from Grant I didn’t expect to be dating anyone until at least Tyler went to college! It was the furthest thing from my mind. When I started to have feelings for Jacques I thought, “No, this can’t be happening right now!” but I couldn’t ignore this wonderful man right in front of me.

Jacques is the type of many who would truly give you the shirt off his back. He makes me dinner, in fact he loves to cook. He mows my lawn and is handy around the house. He treats me like a queen, the way I deserve to be treated, as does any woman.

I have not told Tyler that we are seeing each other as he is still sensitive about Grant and I s’ separation. He thinks Jacques is a friend. In fact he calls Jacques our “butler” because he does so many things for us!

I hope you will share in my joy that I have found a good man, no, a good person, to share my life with right now and hopefully in the future.


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About mamasick

Emily Cullen is a pen-name. I suffer from chronic illnesses and diseases which include Bipolar Disorder, Asthma, Diabetes and Fibromyalgia. I had battled Lupus and Rheumatoid Arthritis but there is no longer evidence of me having these diseases and my Rheumatologist has declared them to be "burnt out" of my system. I am separated from my husband, “Grant”. Our son, “Tyler” was born in September of 2006 and suffers from tics and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, and is delayed in fine and gross motor skills. In my blog I seek to let sick moms know that they are not the only ones going through this, and to educate people about what can happens when one becomes catastrophically ill. I also strive to break down stereotypes of what a “Welfare Mom” is like. Anything that I have gone through due to being sick, is written on the pages of Mama Sick.

6 Responses to Boyfriend Material

  1. CyndyNewsome says:

    I am not one to judge at all, as I just got married for the 3rd time and am never good about waiting around….I hate being alone. Anyway, I wish you all the best! Don’t let what anyone else thinks worry you, anyway – it’s your life and you need to do it YOUR way.
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  2. mamasick says:

    Thanks for the nice words, Cyndy and congratulations on your marriage. I am (mostly) past the point of worrying about what others think of me!

  3. Junie says:

    oh dear Beautiful Mamma (squeals)

    how wonderful, it’s amazing how things happen when we least expect it…let alone ‘don’t want it’. When I left my ex hubby it was going to be just MrT (my sweet dog who’s now passed) When we met Pappy (hubs nickname) I was determined I wasn’t going to fall for this one or any other….We’ve been together for 13 years now, they’ve been hard years and it seems unfair now things are calm and we’re alone (no kids living with us)…well you know my now story….We are spending more time together and making the most of the time that’s left.

    I’m so happy for you honey, please keep us updated no matter what. I;m on your side as I’m sure are many, your happiness is important therefore it’s important to your friends.

    wishing you all the love tenderness and happiness you so deserve.
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    • mamasick says:

      Thanks for the good wishes, June. It’s true, it happens when you least expect it. I am glad I have “Jacques” to share the good things and bad. He takes good care of me.

  4. Junie says:

    It warms my heart for you Beautiful Mamma
    Junie´s last blog post ..I CAN’T STOP THE…

  5. Blair says:

    You know I’m happy for whatever makes you & Dylan Happy

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