The Only Favor I Have Ever Asked You For

On Sunday Christine Miserandino along with thousands of others will Walk for The Cure for Lupus.  For those of you who do not know Christine or have ever heard of The Spoon Theory, she has had Lupus for more than half of her life.  She is married and has a three-year-old daughter, Olivia.  In her own words:

“This past year I was hit hard with Lupus and got so sick that I was in and out of hospitals 3 times, and lost feeling in my legs. I was in a wheelchair. I could not walk. It was very scary. After trying every other option (I have now been on every lupus drug) They were forced to start Cytoxin (chemotherapy) treatments. Once a month, I still do receive these treatments. I am so thankful that with a lot of hard work, and dealing with some nasty side effects from poison medicine I am doing much better and walking and feeling good. I could not have gotten through this ordeal without the support of the Lupus Alliance of Long Island and this is my way of giving back.

I crawled, I used a wheelchair. I hobbled, I used crutches. I had too  much pride, I tried to use a cane… I fell. I went to physical therapy, I got stronger, I cried. The medicine started to work… I walked, I jumped, I danced… and then yes, The Big Question “what are you gonna do now?”  I went with my family to Disney.  By no means am I in remission. I am just very good, compared to very bad. I have bad days, and even bad weeks. I am still doing my chemo treatments. I get very tired. I LOVE my husband, my daughter, our family and I die just a little each time I can’t do what  I want, and can’t take care of them the way I know I could.”

Some of you may know there have been no new drugs for Lupus in fifty years.  THIS YEAR WILL be different as a new Drug called Benlysta should be for use this coming year. It looks very promising. There are other new drugs in trial phases for Lupus too, finally.

What if you don’t have Lupus?  What if you are not even sick?  How does Lupus touch you?

According to the Lupus Foundation of America, every 30 MINUTES someone is diagnosed with Lupus. In the two and a half years that I have been blogging, two bloggers I know have been diagnosed with Lupus, one of them Erin Kotecki Vest or the Queen of Spain.

Approximately 1.5 million men, women and children have Lupus in the United States and 90% of them are WOMEN.  Most women develop Lupus during their childbearing years.

Lupus can be a life-threatening disease that can cause damage to any vital organ of the body, including the heart, kidney, lungs and brain, as well as skin and joints.

So the one favor I ask of you is to donate any amount of money you can, even if it just a dollar, to my friend Christine’s team.  And I would appreciate it if you would mention me as Emily or my site, Mama Sick.  The best gift I could give Christine is to show her that my followers care.

And maybe some day, a normal life will be possible for both of us.

Thank you for reading this, we now return you to your regularly scheduled blog.

Love,

Emily

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About mamasick

Emily Cullen is a pen-name. A former local radio personality for seven years, I still remain active in the voiceover business. My husband, “Grant”, and I have been married since 2002 and have already experienced the “worse, “poorer, ” and “sickness ” of marriage. We both suffer from chronic illnesses and diseases which have progressed. My diseases include Rheumatoid Arthritis, Fibromyalgia, and most, recently and seriously, Lupus. Despite all of the challenges we have faced, we were able to have a little boy, “Tyler,” born in September of 2006, which is the best thing to ever happen to us. Tyler has been classified as a “special needs” child with diagnoses which include Anxiety, OCD, and Tourette’s Syndrome. We also share our home with two cats. We live in New Jersey and I enjoy reading fiction and learning more about taking care of my son. Before my son, I used to enjoy watching movies…watching television for that matter! Before Lupus I enjoyed fine dining and fine wine. No longer able to work, I am now wondering, “What will I do with the rest of my (somewhat) young life?” Blogging sounds like a good start!
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4 Responses to The Only Favor I Have Ever Asked You For

  1. Well written and so close to home, unfortunately. I’m currently getting screened for kidney transplant as Lupus has finally demolished my kidneys. I’m one of the 10% (male) and my symptoms have been crazy, inconsistent, and warlike. Feel like I’ve lost the decade from age 30-40. Yet, I’ve got an amazing wife, 5 children, and expect to persevere with a better quality of life post transplant.

    Thanks for posting Christine’s story. It’s inspiring, yet more common than people know. It needs to be shared with as many people as possible. Thanks for doing your part.

    JT
    .-= Jeff Timpanaro´s last blog ..Kidney Transplant Update Century Problem Warp =-.

  2. Pam says:

    I am giving you the Life is Good Award. Check out my entry with the instructions. You are an encouragement to me.

    Pam
    http://thejourneyleadshome.wordpress.com/2010/10/16/life-is-good-award/
    .-= Pam´s last blog ..Life Is Good Award =-.

  3. Josanne says:

    Will head over to donate-I hope the new drug changes the lives of those suffering with Lupus-will be looking forward to hearing of this new drug in the future–hopefully with good reports!
    .-= Josanne´s last blog ..My New Tag Line and Five Question Friday =-.

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