My Blogaversary!

Inspired by Mama Kat’s Writer’s Workshop. Also part of my first time Friday link-up with Being Fibro Mom!

1. Throwback Thursday: Choose a photo from a previous May and write a poem or a blog post.

On May 19, 2009 I wrote my very first blog post and seven years later I am still chugging along! I won’t say going strong because some of my illnesses have caused me to stop writing for a period and I’ve lost readership, but I am trying to come back!

A lot has happened in seven years, some obvious, some not so, some things I never thought would happen. Tyler is almost ten years old but will always be my little boy, although I am no longer rocking him to sleep!

Most of the things that I didn’t expect to happen were the bad things. In 2012, I attempted suicide and was diagnosed as having bipolar disorder. I have been hospitalized a total of four times, twice for depression and twice for mania.

Also in 2012, with both of us collecting Social Security Disability Insurance (SSDI), we moved to Ohio, where my husband grew up, because of the lower cost of living.

In December of that same year I left my husband of ten years. He also has bipolar disorder but his episodes at that time included anger and rage. I don’t judge women who stay with abusive husbands but the first time an incident happened I immediately began making plans to leave. I also didn’t want Tyler to grow up in an abusive household.

I never imagined I’d be living in Ohio, I really miss New Jersey, but I own a small home and Tyler is happy here. My ex-husband has come a long way, we both have, to the point where we are friends and we even took Tyler to Disney World together a couple of years ago.

I also am blessed to have a wonderful boyfriend whom I met the day I left Grant!

The mission of my blog has never changed: to write a blog geared towards parents with disabilities and chronic illnesses and to write about the challenges we face raising our children. I hoped I’d be able to break down the prejudices towards disabled and chronically ill people who do not appear to look sick. And I also hoped to show people through my life how to be a better advocate for you and your family’s health, whether you are ill at present or what you need to know should something like this happen to you.

As I said, I don’t have as many readers as I used to but when I get a comment from someone telling me they are going through the same thing, or that I have given someone hope, or even when they give ME advice, it makes it all worthwhile!

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About mamasick

Emily Cullen is a pen-name. I suffer from chronic illnesses and diseases which include Bipolar Disorder, Asthma, Diabetes and Fibromyalgia. I had battled Lupus and Rheumatoid Arthritis but there is no longer evidence of me having these diseases and my Rheumatologist has declared them to be "burnt out" of my system. I am separated from my husband, “Grant”. Our son, “Tyler” was born in September of 2006 and suffers from tics and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, and is delayed in fine and gross motor skills. In my blog I seek to let sick moms know that they are not the only ones going through this, and to educate people about what can happens when one becomes catastrophically ill. I also strive to break down stereotypes of what a “Welfare Mom” is like. Anything that I have gone through due to being sick, is written on the pages of Mama Sick.
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7 Responses to My Blogaversary!

  1. stef says:

    Sounds like a rough 7 years. But you made it through. Isn’t that all we can do. Look for the positive, roll up our sleeves and work our way through it. So glad you are happier now!

  2. Colleen says:

    Dear Emily

    Congrats on your blogaversary! Yay for you for bring more awareness to chronic illness and mental heath. It sounds like you have come so far and that is an inspiration in itself. Thanks again.

    • mamasick says:

      Thanks, Colleen. Blogging for so long has also given me a record of my life to look back on and it feels good knowing that despite my illnesses, except for a couple of breaks, I have kept it going!

  3. Kat says:

    Wow, I love that you and your husband are working so hard to provide a wonderful childhood for Tyler. I remember worrying about you during your time away from blogging and I’m so glad you’re still here.

  4. Congratulations on your blogaversary, and for sticking to it through all the ups and downs that life has thrown at you. It’s not always easy to make a decision about something especially life changing decisions. It’s emotionally hard, and we are always questioning ourselves. You are strong and brave. Admirable.

    If you’re not a member already, please join us in my new FB group, Fibro Parenting. It’s about being a fibro thriver and parent. https://www.facebook.com/groups/fibroparenting/

    • mamasick says:

      Thank you for the compliment, Brandi. I have made it through so much and because of this I know I can handle anything that is thrown at me!

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